Defeating Domestic Violence
Every day, many millions of men and women are abused in intimate relationships the world over. In some countries women are protected by the law of the land but for most survivors of domestic violence there is no justice; even where there are laws, protection is patchy and often limited.
For things to change there needs to be a seismic shift in society. Raising awareness of the prevalence of domestic violence is one of the first steps towards ending this scourge on our societies. Domestic violence (DV) is an issue for everyone, not just the perpetrator and survivor, because most of us will in some way be affected by domestic violence - we either have direct experience or know someone who has been affected or will be affected by it in their lifetime. The more we are aware of its root causes, the better we can individually take preventative action.
The more awareness there is of the issues of DV, the safer the people we care about will be. The sooner we are able to recognise the symptoms of domestic violence, the earlier we can take action to put a stop to it. When friends or family members show any outward signs of abuse, it is right that you be outraged and that you offer whatever support you can – no blame or disrespect, just understanding and practical support, to ensure the survivor’s safety first of all and perhaps find help for the perpetrator to stop the violence.
I have worked with hundreds of men individually and in groups over a twenty-five-year period and I know that perpetrators can stop their violence. I have changed, and so have many of the perpetrators I have counselled. My book Pulling the Punches - Defeating Domestic Violence is a self- help book that will make a difference. Please check it out!
Luke Daniels
Pulling the Punches - Defeating Domestic Violence
is a self- help book that will make a difference – check it out.
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